At times, I'm in a hallway. I've closed a door behind me, I'm setting off in a new direction, and I feel a bit lost. This is a perfect time to ask about what I've left. What did I learn? What did I bring to the table that I'd love to discard once and for all? What was good about that past room experience? Can I carry that forward?
Kindness, transparency, good communication, a sense of myself as an adult dealing with adult situations. These are assets to treasure. I took the best care of myself I knew how. I was confidential, almost to a fault. Maybe I can even be more open about who I am and what's important to me. Ask for what I want--for sure. Ask for help. Yes, lots more of that. And working more collaboratively. I can certainly stop trying to lift the world on my own. Nobody is asking for that. The demands are great, and constant, but I believe people want to help. So there's that.
I learned that life is hard. It is. There's no way around it. And I learned that I have a tendency to try too much, and get bogged down. A clean, organized desk at ALL times, every day. That is key.
So onward. Let's see what the new day brings.
Live and Work Well.
Every once in a while, just for kicks, take a blank piece of paper and write out your ideal next job. Keep all the things you do now that you love, drop the things you're less good at or have mastered and want to let go, and fill the remaining space with stretch tasks and goals. Then write out the names of people who have your ideal job. Make a plan to reach out to them and have a 15 to 20 minute coffee break with them over the next month. Find out what it would take for you to get to the next job that's right for you. Do you need to ask for a stretch assignment? Would you be willing to make some time outside work hours to work on a related project with a mentor? Maybe do some volunteering in line with the new vision work? I suggest that you create a plan and list the milestones. It will amazing you in December how much closer you are to your vision, if you're just a little deliberate about it. Once you've created a plan for yourself, ask a friend to keep you acco...
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