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Be Careful What You Tell Your Children

That's your real children, and the children inside.

Alice opens this weekend and has me thinking about fairytales.  The stories we tell our inner selves about how things work.  These archetypal tales shape our unconscious.  That drives our behavior on the primitive level.

Think, a story told in 1865, now a movie in 2010, when there are so many other stories to tell.  Fascinating, yes?  Because it holds: Caroll (the pen name is a partial anagram of his real name) was stuck in a world of mathematics and forced celibacy, and escapes (supposedly in his tending to little girls) in the fantasy of Alice.

On the one hand, what mad creativity can you create from your constraints?  Finances, your current work life, etc.

On the other hand, pay attention to how you do escape, how you go down the rabbit hole. Be sure when you drop your "empty marmalade jar" that there's no one below who'll get hurt.  Capiche?  Be careful that your actions cause the least harm, most of all to yourself. 

And if you dare, if it's your cup of tea, delight with me in having some fun this weekend, with Alice!

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