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An Authentic Brand YOU

You know, I cringe at my superpowers, move people out of the way line in my description.  And I will leave it up for now.  Just as my brother calls me the absent-minded professor.  My boss calls me on my inattention to details.  And my cousin called me on my statement, "i lack spontaniety."  She said I do have spontaneous moments when it comes to what I want to do; however woe to the person who suggests a spontaneous idea to me.

Then I get planful.

So I own my subterranean...well not so below the surface, desire for power.  I swear I'd only use it for good!

And my proclivity to leave some details out, or make a mistake or two in my focus on speed vs effectiveness or wanting to stay in the bigger picture with a distaste for being in the weeds.

And that, along with all my amazing attributes, makes up my authentic brand.

Then I have to find a way to communicate it in a helpful way with other stakeholders.  My new supervisor and colleagues, etc.  And we have to find a way to work successfully together where I get coverage for my stuff.  E.g. I may need to double-check lists twice before submitting them, etc.

If I say I'm detail-oriented to people please...that's when I get in big trouble.

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