It pays to listen. What a man says, especially on first meeting, can tell you a lot.
I have learned to even listen to myself as I speak, as I tell my story. It's less about shaping my image, and more about hearing how I frame my life. There is a lot that is true about me. What do I want others to remember: how do I want them to enter my reality?
Do I want others to view me as broken, without rudder, or do I want to be seen as having valuable assets, and be seen as one who's also clear about my liabilities and what help I need?
This is what I'm thinking as I end the day.
I have learned to even listen to myself as I speak, as I tell my story. It's less about shaping my image, and more about hearing how I frame my life. There is a lot that is true about me. What do I want others to remember: how do I want them to enter my reality?
Do I want others to view me as broken, without rudder, or do I want to be seen as having valuable assets, and be seen as one who's also clear about my liabilities and what help I need?
This is what I'm thinking as I end the day.
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